What others feel from my action

The evaluation, or maybe appreciation of what I or we have done may differ from that of what I/we have expected. The word heard today was somewhat impressive to me. Am I doing the right thing for all the things that I have determined to be right? I hope that I am, but I'm never confident about what I have been doing and done so far. Why am I writing in English anyway? There's lot's to think about and do, regardless of what I want to do.
I really feel that private/official rule for priority listing should have to be changed in order to keep me intact.